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Member No.: 12
Joined: 8-August 08
I think for the most part I want my future mate to be asexual and/or celibate. I just don't think I want to compromise around having sex anymore. I simply don't want to have sex in my future relationships. Now the problem with this is I don't know if I can find such a mate so I may end up compromising anyways if my desire for a relationship trumps my desire for not having sex anymore.
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Member No.: 516
Joined: 19-September 11
Good question!
Since sex for me is out of the question then I will wait for someone else like me. And if I never find them, then it wasn't meant to be.
But if I had the choice then it wouldn't matter, and I would just follow the first woman who stole my heart and who didn't give it back. An impossibility all on it's own, but that's what dreams are for.
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Member No.: 551
Joined: 12-February 12
Yes, I see my ideal partner as asexual, because while I could fake my way through sex, it would not be fair to someone who genuinely desires and enjoys it. And if a sexual person decided to become celibate because I’m asexual, I couldn’t be happy knowing that she is giving up something that otherwise would be a fundamental part of her life.