"Emo" rant?, i'm not always like this :(

Well..It happened..the thing to finally stab my heart /-\
I don't know how many of you knew this, but I did have a bf, I have had one for a while....well today he broke up with me..after 1 year and 7 months..
I feel..love sober..if that makes sense..
Am I a monster for not crying? D: ..
;___; I wanna be held
Why does this always happen to meeee?.. agh i'm gonna cry irl if I keep going D:

sorry guys, I had to get this out..

Aww, I'm so sorry to hear that. My girlfriend of 1 year, 4 months also broke up with me at the start of the month, while I didn't want it to happen seeing as she was the girl who went to Vietnam with me and my first long lasting relationship, it happened and to be honest I took it really well.

Don't worry, things will work out and you'll bounce back on your feet soon enough.

You're not a monster for not crying. I never cried when my ex broke up with me, actually I bounced back really quickly and found someone else within in the same day, that on the other hand made me feel that I was a dirty man-skank but I'm happy now and my ex and I are still good friends.

I just hope the same thing can happen with you.

That's gotta be tough...but don't worry. Life goes on, ya know? I'm sure you'll find your significant other sooner or later.

Don't worry if you don't cry. Crying isn't a direct expression of sadness, in my book. If your not crying, that doesn't mean anything except one thing: Your not crying.

Your best bet is to realize what happened, think about it, and remember the past, think for the present, and move toward the future. Things happen in life, some you can't control, some you can, and some that were just never meant to be.

I take it your not too concerned about the cause of it, since you didn't say anything about that. Just remember, don't go blaming yourself for what happened.

I only hope that it was an honest relationship, and he had a good reason for breaking up, and went about it the right way. If he talked it over, was calm, and had good reason, then he showed you some of the respect you deserve as a person. I would hate to hear that he broke up for some dumb reason, and didn't have the courage or sense to confront you personally and realistically about it.

Now, pick yourself up, and keep going. Tomorrows another day, and your whole life is ahead of you. It's okay to be sad, and it's okay to let your emotions be shown. But it's not okay to let them consume you. Don't fall into a cycle of self-pity and sadness. That never is good.

Actually..I don't even know the reason -looks down- and he did it over MSN.. and..he had one of my friend say it... -falls to my knees- ;__;

I had a girlfriend for about a month. She didn't really break up with me. She just stopped answering my attempts to communicate with her. Emails and phone calls both ignored for weeks, and I still haven't got an answer back. That broke my heart for a while, because all I have to go by is that she's stopped talking to me very suddenly. So, it seems that she just doesn't want to talk to me anymore. Hey, maybe she just died. Funny thing, that last though actually brought me a bit of solace at the time, her dying rather than rejecting me. Heh, and you're questioning if you're a monster (And no, you're not).

Over msn and through a friend.. no idea what to say other than if i was in your shoes i'd be very very pissed.

If you want to know why i suggest asking him when you are feeling better. I am sorry this happened to ya especially the way it happened.... sounds very primary school.

Ok, I hate to be the bad guy here, but this is starting to look like an emo rant. You need to pick yourself up. We've all had our heartbreaks before, it's part of suffering as a human. I'm sure you had some good times with your boyfriend, too. Besides, if he didn't have the testicular fortitude to tell you this to your face like a human being, then he wasn't really worth your time at all. And I believe Corvid's right. It sounds to me like you're in one of those primary school relationships. Obviously you've got your whole life ahead of you, so don't get bogged down in the "I can't be loved" tangent. You're nineteen. I'd be very impressed if you have found the right man by now. You two were involved, I'm guessing... very early in your junior year? Very few high school sweet hearts make it to be life-time partners. I PROMISE you, when you find the next man, and you will, trust me, you'll wonder what you saw in him to begin with.
Oh, and one more thing, don't go on in the hope that he'll take you back. That's only setting yourself up for more heartache if you find out he's dating someone else. Just continue on with the mentality that you need to find someone else.

It's been two days since the break up with a guy she has been with for quite some time, thats not looking emo that's normal.

Don't worry, it's not emo. Breaking up is harsh... I've done it quite a bit... I'm so sorry that happened... it never feels good at all... But don't worry, somone else will be there eventually, and there's a chance they'll be that special someone forever ^_^

He**..
I am teh gay..

And thank you everyone, for your help and slaps, I guess I needed them <3

Being teh gay is fun.

But yeah, break-ups suck. Still, a few months after I'm no longer dating someone, I usually look at them and wonder what the hell we had in common in the first place. My first ex not so much, we're still ok friends, but my second ex, I have no idea why the hell I dated him in the first place, we were totally incompatible.

Here's hoping you realize that there are better guys out there for ya than him! That break-up tactic was lame, too, especially since you guys were together for a while. It rivals the post-it note break-up on Sex and The City.

Although I don't recommend you do what Carrie did in that episode. That'll just lead to trouble =P

I don't know why but that made me chuckle XD

Oh, Pegasus, sorry if I was a little harsh with you. I've been a little on edge recently, even though that's no decent excuse for snapping at people. I think the ;__; stuff seemed a little cheesy to me, and I guess I got carried away. Sorry.

I should be thanking you, don't appoligise, heh..and S-sorry x_X My friends on Second Life have turned me Bishie/"cute"
Not..that I wasn't already on my way there x3

He**..
I am teh gay..

Ummmmm.... sorry lol. I just assumed, which is something i try not to do but sometimes i do and well this happens.. sorry man so sorry.

He**..
I am teh gay..

Ummmmm.... sorry lol. I just assumed, which is something i try not to do but sometimes i do and well this happens.. sorry man so sorry.

It's fine lol, I actually forgot about it anyway xP