Title: ugh guys?
Description: or is it girls?
ValsFan - April 16, 2008 11:07 PM (GMT)
so, what do you do when your boyfriend starts giving you the girlfriend treatment?
so Im not sensitive enouph or somthing? and things are always bugging him that makes no sence to me :unsure: and suddenly somthing is wrong, and he seems to think something is bothering me.
isnt this supposed to be what girlfriends do?? <_<
Im so confused :blink: :rolleyes:
Axel - April 16, 2008 11:52 PM (GMT)
The possible reasons are endless. Talk to him.
Unless he's not willing to talk. Then let him sort out his mind and tell you on his own.
Although more than likely, it's jealousy. I doubt George enjoys being replaced by Alfred as your avatar.
ValsFan - April 17, 2008 12:42 PM (GMT)
LOL George can get over it, for now it will be Alfred, I think I will make a signature to go with it :wub:
and as far as talking, we do...I think, I ask whats going on and he just sits there like he wants to talk but just thinks for 4000 years, and says nothing. then when he does finaly say somthing its so very vague. I ask him to be a little more specific and he says he cant :unsure: I dont think I am keeping him from saying anything but who knows.
yes thats right, I started a sentence with AND :tongue:
El Stormo - April 17, 2008 01:34 PM (GMT)
| QUOTE (ValsFan @ Apr 17 2008, 01:07 AM) |
| Im so confused :blink: :rolleyes: |
Good. More women should feel that way. Maybe they'd finally understand why that kind of treatment annoys us men so much.
Oh, I'm sorry, was that not helpful? :p
Silverbolt - April 17, 2008 01:40 PM (GMT)
Step 1: Check to see if your boyfriend is not, in fact, a wimminz.
Step 2: ????
Step 3: PROFIT!
El Stormo - April 17, 2008 05:08 PM (GMT)
Axel - April 17, 2008 08:15 PM (GMT)
| QUOTE (ValsFan @ Apr 17 2008, 08:42 AM) |
LOL George can get over it, for now it will be Alfred, I think I will make a signature to go with it :wub:
and as far as talking, we do...I think, I ask whats going on and he just sits there like he wants to talk but just thinks for 4000 years, and says nothing. then when he does finaly say somthing its so very vague. I ask him to be a little more specific and he says he cant :unsure: I dont think I am keeping him from saying anything but who knows.
yes thats right, I started a sentence with AND :tongue: |
Sounds like he has something he really wants to say but doesn't want to hurt you.
ValsFan - April 18, 2008 12:13 AM (GMT)
| QUOTE (El Stormo @ Apr 17 2008, 01:34 PM) |
| QUOTE (ValsFan @ Apr 17 2008, 01:07 AM) | | Im so confused :blink: :rolleyes: |
Good. More women should feel that way. Maybe they'd finally understand why that kind of treatment annoys us men so much.
Oh, I'm sorry, was that not helpful? :p
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I have no problem seeing why its annoying, I always seem to get it :rolleyes:
and if hes gonna say somthing, hurtful or not, he should be out with it already <_< how (besides whipping heh) do I get him to spit it out. I swear if its something retarded (considdering the girlfriend treatmen rofl) Im gonna scream. It would be better than limbo land, maybe he likes it here :unsure:
yes I did start another sentence with and :tongue:
Axel - April 18, 2008 02:02 AM (GMT)
And just don't seem to care. :p
ValsFan - April 18, 2008 10:49 AM (GMT)
| QUOTE (Axel @ Apr 18 2008, 02:02 AM) |
| And just don't seem to care. :p |
thats ok, I made an Alfred sig and now I feel perfectly fine :tongue:
Skwid - April 25, 2008 12:08 AM (GMT)
Just beat it out of him.
Perhaps that's what he wants.
AND doesn't know how to ask.
ValsFan - April 25, 2008 01:17 PM (GMT)
| QUOTE (Skwid @ Apr 25 2008, 12:08 AM) |
Just beat it out of him.
Perhaps that's what he wants.
AND doesn't know how to ask. |
lol you would think it would be easy to ask me of all ppls for a beating :tongue:
Skwid - April 25, 2008 11:16 PM (GMT)
He's afraid you'll say yes. ;)
Fishy - April 28, 2008 05:21 PM (GMT)
Start crying guys can't stand girls crying, at least I can't..
That or tell him to come out with it and if he doesn't that you'll break up.
ValsFan - April 29, 2008 07:33 AM (GMT)
yeah, so not into the ultimatums....nor the crying <_<
El Stormo - April 29, 2008 09:38 AM (GMT)
Geez just kick the whiny bastard out on his ass.
ValsFan - April 30, 2008 04:07 AM (GMT)
lol, well I finaly got him to open his mouth, for some reason he seemed to think I was planning on leaving or somthing :unsure: that is news to me. more girlfriend treatment me thinks. why exactly DO people avoid just saying wtf is on their mind anyway?
El Stormo - April 30, 2008 11:04 AM (GMT)
A question which has baffled men for eternity.
Fishy - May 1, 2008 11:18 PM (GMT)
| QUOTE (El Stormo @ Apr 30 2008, 12:04 PM) |
| A question which has baffled men for eternity. |
It's because people don't want to hurt somebody else their feelings and want to avoid arguments, the easiest way to do that is to just stop saying what you think or feel, only problem with that is that it only works for a small time.
(I'm getting the feeling that Vals her question was somewhat rhetorical but I don't care)
ValsFan - May 2, 2008 01:17 AM (GMT)
actually it wasnt at all. I really dont see the big deal in not just telling ppl wtf is going on. I mean sure it may be hurtful in some way, but it is usualy worse later if you dont. I HATE it when ppl give you the "its all good" bullshit then later come out with all these issues they had....I have no tolerance for a person who will LIE telling me things are one way, then expect me to feel bad later when they finaly get it straight. :angry:
El Stormo - May 2, 2008 07:41 AM (GMT)
| QUOTE (Fishy @ May 2 2008, 01:18 AM) |
| QUOTE (El Stormo @ Apr 30 2008, 12:04 PM) | | A question which has baffled men for eternity. |
It's because people don't want to hurt somebody else their feelings and want to avoid arguments,
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No it's not. Women don't say what they feel because they want you to ask, or worse, they want you to know by your own accord. Every day I fall to my knees and feel thankful that my girlfriend isn't like that.
Silverbolt - May 2, 2008 09:39 AM (GMT)
| QUOTE (El Stormo @ May 2 2008, 10:41 AM) |
| QUOTE (Fishy @ May 2 2008, 01:18 AM) | | QUOTE (El Stormo @ Apr 30 2008, 12:04 PM) | | A question which has baffled men for eternity. |
It's because people don't want to hurt somebody else their feelings and want to avoid arguments,
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No it's not. Women don't say what they feel because they want you to ask, or worse, they want you to know by your own accord. Every day I fall to my knees and feel thankful that my girlfriend isn't a girl.
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Fixed for you.
El Stormo - May 2, 2008 09:44 AM (GMT)
ValsFan - May 2, 2008 09:58 AM (GMT)
| QUOTE (Silverbolt @ May 2 2008, 09:39 AM) |
| QUOTE (El Stormo @ May 2 2008, 10:41 AM) | | QUOTE (Fishy @ May 2 2008, 01:18 AM) | | QUOTE (El Stormo @ Apr 30 2008, 12:04 PM) | | A question which has baffled men for eternity. |
It's because people don't want to hurt somebody else their feelings and want to avoid arguments,
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No it's not. Women don't say what they feel because they want you to ask, or worse, they want you to know by your own accord. Every day I fall to my knees and feel thankful that my girlfriend isn't a girl.
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Fixed for you.
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ROFL!
:D
El Stormo - May 2, 2008 10:57 AM (GMT)
| QUOTE (ValsFan @ May 2 2008, 11:58 AM) |
| QUOTE (Silverbolt @ May 2 2008, 09:39 AM) | | QUOTE (El Stormo @ May 2 2008, 10:41 AM) | | QUOTE (Fishy @ May 2 2008, 01:18 AM) | | QUOTE (El Stormo @ Apr 30 2008, 12:04 PM) | | A question which has baffled men for eternity. |
It's because people don't want to hurt somebody else their feelings and want to avoid arguments,
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No it's not. Women don't say what they feel because they want you to ask, or worse, they want you to know by your own accord. Every day I fall to my knees and feel thankful that my girlfriend isn't a girl.
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Fixed for you.
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ROFL!
:D
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Seriously, that wasn't even funny.
For you, Silv.
ValsFan - May 2, 2008 11:37 AM (GMT)
I was laughing quite hard
facesmash not so funny though :unsure:
Silverbolt - May 2, 2008 12:38 PM (GMT)
Stormy is used to dishing it out, not taking it.
El Stormo - May 2, 2008 01:53 PM (GMT)
This doesn't even qualify as "taking it".
ValsFan - May 2, 2008 10:30 PM (GMT)
and on a happier note, I had all sorts or over sugary breakfast type things with my BF (GF? :tongue: ) today. so it seems whatever silly thing was bugging him has dissolved almost as if it never existed :rolleyes: but I guess I will see in time.
yes I did start a sentence with and again :tongue: :tongue: