Oh, I am terribly sorry, I will now try to live-up to your post standards.
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Err, I mean, "Boobies!"
Now stop spamming my thread.
Anyway, back to the Lair. One of the things I enjoy most here is discussion. However, there are multiple problems with it here. The most obvious is that we agree too often here, and is why as of recently I’ve been becoming something of a troll and devil’s advocate in discussions. Though I seem to find too much enjoyment in it, and go overboard and develop a rather erratic and sarcastic style enwrapped in a thick layer of “lulz”. I cannot solve that aspect of the problem though, so I guess I will just have to wait until the sheep die-off.
But that’s not the only problem, or the worse. That is only a problem that comes from the Lair, but there are also the problems inherited naturally from the limitations of discussion itself, and until we start messing with the Lair Discussion Board’s DNA and change its genes so it does not have any of them anymore, we to work at those more than the problem of agreeing.
First off, there is the problem of the limitation of one’s knowledge. People can ( well, should ) only write about what they know. For most of the Lair’s life, I have kept out of discussions for the most part due to the fact that I know little and am entirely ignorant. Even now I do not know anything about the subject, but will still post for the sake of moving the discussion and keeping interest in it.
Because we have a diverse group of individuals here, things become especially hard. This throws most discussions into two categories; discussions that someone is interested in, but is the only one interested, or the only one with a substantial amount of knowledge in; discussions that everyone can relate to and either posts nothing groundbreaking, or it is something too boring or common for most to care about. That is not to say those two categories are the sole two groups that discussions fall into, only that those are the two that the discussions at the Lair most often fall under.
The first of those categories, discussions that only one or a small few are interested in and have sufficient knowledge in, is hurt most by our varying backgrounds. With things such as politics, music, and most local news falling under this label, we are left with few subjects to talk about that would provoke enough interest within us to bother discussing. This is a problem that cannot be cured by linking to, or telling, the mass all about the topic. Interest in it must exist within the person beforehand for them to add deep thought -- or thought at all – to the discussion.
The other, discussions that all can relate to and are bland, boring topics that everyone has gone over several times and have too solid of an opinion on, can be used, though they obvious are not as exhilarating as the first group. Subjects such as religion, global news such as George Bush or Global Warming, and political philosophies like Communism fall under this.
Finally, the problem of biased views, stupidity, bigotry, and narcissism always impose a problem in discussions. That includes the Lair.
Never-the-less, discussing various topics is something some of us pursue and find happiness in, and has always been an attraction here at the Lair. This is my main concern and goal in our effort on the Lair. The rest of the problems, the spam, the idle chatter, the need for various attractions… those problems aren’t as important to me, and are not things I will put much effort into.
Spam is not ( in my eyes ) much of a problem. I know most of you are already disagreeing with me here, but try to read through this and understand my point-of-view. You see, I have always been a spammer, so I assume it is easier for me to accept this belief. And when I talk about spam, I refer more so to what would be called “off topic chatting”. Randomly posting things that have no significance is still bad, but when it is just something that gradually grows in a natural conversation it is harmless. Even when it is only between two members, it gives others a good read, just like any conversation in a book. It may not be within everyone’s tastes, and I suppose you have to be interested in Realism, Naturalism, and the such instead of the usual “I AM AN HERO WITH BLAND, ONE-DIMENSIONAL PERSONALITY AND OVERBLOWN LANGUAGE!”
This is a place for social gathering, to tell someone not to idly chatter with friends defeats the purpose of the Lair, and why I encourage and involve myself in it
in permitted sections. This is directed at the old ways of the Lair, around the time of the
ISE. Yes, going off-topic does detract some people, but telling someone to “continue the conversation in another thread”, or “stop spamming”, or “post this kind of stuff on the spam board” kills the mood entirely, which is something that those people have in that particular spot at that time. It can always be split later, if need be. But like I said, this is not something I really care much for either way, and not something I will fight much for ( or at all, depending on my mood ).
Light conversation is much related to the spam part above, but focused on a central topic ( such as a thread about a book or game ). More topics are needed like the discussions, and also fall pray to the same two categories the discussions have ( with some others in there, I suppose… again, I have not put much thought into this part ).
Bleh, you get the point.